It's been a while since my last update, don't worry, I'm still alive XD
Kinda drop out from the 'blog-ing' mood until recently. I guess too much of cosmopolitan pushed me back to the blog-ing box XD
So, this article below is not purely 100% my own idea. Why? This is what you get when you had nothing much to do in your first few days of intern except reading magazines, yes, piles and piles of magazines in order to understand more about their style etc.
There you go, a piece of post about relationship and life inspired by the Cosmopolitan International Edition magazine, I can't recall which country it is but should be either UK, US, Australia or South Africa.
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Girls, please take note of this. You don't live in La La Land or Hollywood movie or series where your relationship is like those romance movies or series produced by film makers. That means it won't always be a happy ending like Cinderella story or as tragedy as the typical Korean drama, unless you are very lucky or unlucky, which I pray it won't. It won't be predicted easily also because life is complicated.
Yes, your romance life will be complicated, way more complicated than those drama or movie you watch in the big square or rectangular box with moving images. I'd seen a few girls who always wanted a guy to be something like the guys in movies.
In a real relationship, it's not about the guy having to comfort the girl, always be the typical gentlemen and tolerate the girl. A happy relationship does not consist of the commitment from one side but both, together. It's not just about you all the time so please stop acting like your relationship is just about you. Pay attention to your partner too.
If you think your are not happy with your relationship, instead of just blaming it to the other one, maybe it's time for you to have a look at yourself first, and then start thinking what's wrong with your relationship. When there's a problem in a relationship, there's no black and white in it as there's always something where both are wrong.
So, girls. Keep your high hope about a romantic relationship lower a bit instead of imagine it like La-La-Land romance or Hollywood romance and you might be happy with it. Even if it's just a tiny little stuff that you guys did together, sometimes it doesn't even need to cost much! Isn't that nice? To get happiness without having to pay? That's something FREE!
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Referencing from Cosmopolitan International Edition.
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